1.31.2012

mornings // a break down




is it bad if the first thing that came to mind before rolling out of bed this morning was, "when can i take a nap?"  this thought seems to creep up on me at the end of the week, say friday.  not tuesday!  this should not be happening at the beginning of my week for crying out loud!  

after the fifth, yes fifth, push of my snooze button and the fourth time asking andrew to watch stella's quick hands just one more time from grabbing my extreme case of bed-head, i  managed to get out of bed.  she is at the stage where pulling mommy's hair in the morning is so much fun.  well, groggy doesn't come close to how i felt.  at this point, i was already 20 minutes behind schedule. and to top it off,  i'm pretty sure i stared at the clothes in my closet for about 10 minutes before realizing that i was going to have one of those mornings where even my new clothes {that i just tried on} didn't seem to fit or look quite right.  you know what i'm talking about. 

at 6am, there were only two things i could think of that were bold enough to knock me out of this stupor and get me back on track: my orange pants and some extra-bold cafe.  orange pants really are awesome, you know.  so what if they resemble the neon highlighter i use to edit, or biiig deal if they match the hideous hue of our school colors {sorry, gators}...they are completely wonderful and seem to do just the trick.  and the extra-bold cafe.  amaaaazing!  gotta love the 8:00 am jitters and the good times that result from not being able to form a coherent sentence because of all the caffeine.  i say it's worth it. 

if there is one thing that gets me through the day, so to speak, it is the combination of these two things...oh, and perhaps a backpacker pour of wine at dinner ;)  today, is for sure, without a doubt, all about the little things!

1.30.2012

3 minutes and 14 seconds of sheer bliss

...here's a little gem to get you through the hustle and bustle of this work week. it's kinda, sorta, the best video ever. period. get ready for some epic dance moves...

happy monday!


1.29.2012

date night{s}


it feels like it has been forever since andrew and i have gotten the chance to go out for dinner. i'm talking just the two of us...having a conversation...with eye contact...while enjoying our meal in a single sitting...food hot and all. our usual routine during the week usually involves me eating over a two hour spread, shoveling in a bite here and there in between bath time and changing yet another poopie diaper. andrew's meal frequently involves some sort of re-heating method. it's not ideal.

but this weekend, finally, we had date night...twice! on friday night our date night included miss stella, but she slept most of the time so it seemed like it was just the two of us, back in the day. we went to our favorite thai restaurant in kansas city, lulu's, and split some small plates and two types of curry. one thing that has drastically changed since the addition of little miss to our family is that we need to be very strategic when dining out. hence, we ate at 4:30 pm and not at 8 pm {our preferred dining hour}. we have made this work for us two-fold. we get to enjoy the cheap happy hour prices and beat the pretentious diners that scoff at any form of family dining after 7 pm. {by the way, we made this mistake once at our favorite french restaurant in kansas city, le fou frog, when stella was 7 weeks old and we had to strip her down to her diaper because it was so hot on their patio. we haven't been back with the baby since.} so we ate, we conversed, and were home by 6 in our jammies ready to watch a movie. this is my definition of a perfect friday evening.


on saturday night, date night #2, andrew and i went to a recognition dinner rewarding his efforts for awesomeness for this past year as a financial planner. this time we had a babysitter because nana & papa were in town! we got to get all fancied up; he adorned the ultra-skinny tie and i my new fuchsia pumps. we went to la bodega for some cocktails and then then had a supper yummy meal with his co-workers. the dessert was insane. it felt really good to sit and relax with my husband and other grown-ups with grown-up conversation. don't get me wrong, i truly love talking about what knock-off brand of diapers work best and how neat ikea's wooden baby toys are...to an extent. andrew and i both firmly believe that "us" time is essential and there is no shame in taking a few hours out of your week to spend with your spouse, sans kiddos!


then when andrew and i got home...we got to experience thee best moment. we quietly snuck into stella's room, picked up and cuddled our baby girl, whispered a lullaby or two in her ear, and thought to ourselves how perfect our little family is. we do enjoy time when it's just us two out on the town...but we absolutely cherish and adore times when it's us four snuggled on the couch watching an episode of "how i met your mother."

1.27.2012

stella is on the move!

baby girl is crawling/scooting for the 1st time ever for mommy and daddy! {ignore the high pitched sound of mommy's excited voice in the background}




our life will never be the same with miss stella on the move! house proofing here we come...


happy weekend :)

1.25.2012

inside the mind of an 8th grader

i totally understand if this post title freaks you out a bit. i mean, who really wants to know what goes on in the mind of an 8th grader anyway? ...it's dangerous territory indeed. however, if you are hesitant to read on, i think you should take the risk and devote a few minutes to read about what 13 year olds have to say. this post might pleasantly surprise you and perhaps change the way you view your average teen. and if anything, it will give you a laugh for the day.

last week my 8th grade communication arts classes read “the treasure of lemon brown” by walter dean meyers. while reading this short story, issues and questions regarding homelessness began to surface. {f.y.i. the character lemon brown is a homeless man who teaches the protagonist, boy named greg, important life lessons} i decided to take our class in a new direction by doing a socratic seminar with these inquisitive teens. together, my students developed open-ended questions after reading local new articles about homelessness in kansas city. my 8th graders brought their critical thinking questions and analysis to our socratic seminar in class today, where they were enabled to think for themselves and defend their opinions, as opposed to me merely filling their head with the “right” answers {sadly something i think far too many teachers today try to accomplish}.

through our discourse, we critically examined the real-world connections “the treasure of lemon brown” has in our society today, specifically relating to the topic of homelessness. my students respectfully looked each other in the eyes, addressed each other by their name, and gladly shared their opinions, viewpoints, and reactions with their peers.

throughout the day there were a lot of “real” moments where these 13 year olds asked each other difficult and honest questions about how to solve homelessness and help those in our community. there were uplifting moments when the usually quiet and soft spoken students had the opportunity to form an opinion out loud and state their beliefs without ridicule or frustration. i don’t think we give these youngsters enough opportunities to really speak out. this seminar gave them that chance, and in turn, opened all of our eyes, gave us a few laughs, and helped us work together as a team while discussing issues going in the real world today.

here is a peek at some of the unique perspectives summed up in statements and questions made by my 8th graders today:

-“if you’ve never earned money you don’t know how to spend it. we need to educate the homeless and all people how to use money and save.”
-“homeless shelters need to be like a bird’s nest. the mama bird is the workers and helps the little birdies (the homeless people) fly”
-“put yourself in their shoes…how would you feel?”
-“…they homeless…they don’t have shoes…but i get your point”
- “i think sports people should give 20% of their salary to help the homeless. shame on the nba man!”
-“my grandpa is homeless. he is a person too. how would you feel if one of your family members was without a home?”
-“they be spendin’ they money on crack so I be keepin’ my money and gonna use it to get new jordans.”
-“spending money is like a sport. if you have never ‘practiced’ then you won’t be good at it. that’s why my step-dad gets his paycheck and goes to get a new t.v or car when we need food and new clothes.”
-“why do we tease the homeless with canned food drives when they don’t own a can opener?”
-“my uncle stoops down on grand ave. and pretends to be blind and homeless with a sign and all. he gets money at stop signs then goes to cvs and blows it on booze. he knows it's wrong but has an addiction.”
-“…i think i’ve seen your uncle…”
-“i think we should all take part in a government funded program called ‘adopt a homeless person’ where we take in a hobo and get payed for it by congress and obama and stuff and help them get on their feet with a roof over their head.”
-“…our government needs to stop spending money on a war that means nothin’.”
-“those people you call ‘they’ are people who have families and a soul and feelings…and probably names too”
-“what does this conversation say about us…as a society?”

and my favorite…

-“wow…this conversation is really opening my eyes.”

yes, my 8th graders are usually too loud, tend to smell like b.o., often make too many excuses, find it hard to remember their pencil, "forget" to write their names on their paper, and conveniently leave their homework on their kitchen counter more times than not...but i do have to say that these young minds are brilliant ones. these minds belong to people who are unique, diverse, and have been through an awful lot. i became a teacher for days like this, and i do not think this is one I will ever forget.

1.24.2012

a recipe // lemon burst cookies


...make lemon burst cookies!

i have seriously scored with this recipe. you guys know i am not a huge fan of baking, nor am i really any good at it. so this recipe is pretty much perfection for a gal like me because it includes lemon cake {one of my obsessions} and only takes 15 or so minutes to make per batch.

after taking one bite of my first batch of these lemon burst cookies, i had to call my mom just to say..."guess what!? i'm baking again!" not only do they taste good, but they are easy to make and super affordable as well because you only need four ingredients! if you're one of those recipe skeptics...get ready to be dazzled!







stella loved the cool whip :)


here is how to make the yummiest, easiest, most lemony cookie there ever was...

lemon burst cookies

-1 box lemon cake mix*
-1- 8 oz container of cool whip

-1 egg
-1/3 cup powdered sugar (for rolling)

-preheat oven to 350°
-in medium bowl, beat cool whip, egg and cake mix until well blended. dough will be thick and sticky
-drop by teaspoonfuls into a bowl of powdered sugar and roll to coat
-place on parchment lined cookie sheet and bake for 10- 12 minutes
*try these using strawberry or orange cake mix for variety

-eat and enjoy!

1.23.2012

stella laughing

happy 8 month old birthday, baby girl!


we have enjoyed every giggle, smile and belly laugh :)

love, mommy & daddy

1.22.2012

just the two of us




andrew left for vegas on thursday to celebrate a good quarter with some work buddies for the weekend. miss stella and i took advantage of this time to bond so we...played in her room {she can stand in her crib now...eeek!}, snuggled everywhere, had a giggle contest, practiced crawling, ate some sweet potato puffs, "read" some magazines, gave each other head massages, napped, had a sleepover in mommy & daddy's bed every night, took a few bubble baths, went shopping for new striped tights {we love h&m}, looked out the windows, and all sorts of other little dandy things.

it was a dream but we sure missed our main man. here is a glimpse of our girly adventure together...how did i ever get so lucky?

1.21.2012

handmade // cleaning products



i have an obsession with cleaning products, candles, and come to think of it, all things that smell clean and fresh. that is why time after time i find myself in the cleaning aisle at target sniffing the mrs. meyer's array of aromatheraputic goodies. to say that this stuff is addicting is an understatement. and oh how i adore the quirky pastel labeling! this adds an aesthetic element to my otherwise boring kitchen counter. before i forget, i simply cannot fail to mention that this stuff is earth-friendly. score!!!

while browsing some of my favorite blogs, i came across a recipe for mrs. meyer's basil soap...1 gallon for $4. this new found DIY made my day! i sure don't plan on making my own candles or replicating their soap bars, but the liquid soap i can handle. 


this is a homemade laundry detergent recipe from pinterest that is totally worth making. it freshened up my washer and leaves my clothes soft and smelling good too.





one more...


here's an all-purpose cleaning product i swear by.
the orange and mint is a smelling sensation!

check out more of my DIY's on pinterest...happy cleaning!

1.20.2012

5 reasons why i'm awesome, by leon bourdain


1. i am a brindled mix between a french bulldog and pug that resembles a gremlin. enough said. that's totally awesome!!!

2. i have an obsession for sucking soft blankets. my mommy and daddy think it's because i was weened off my first pug mommy too soon. little do they know, i just like the taste.

3. i have a vast vocabulary of food-related words. i know "treat," "food," "hungry," "biscuit," "dinner," "bone," and "eat." "treat" is my all time favorite. {i wonder if my parents use these words for bribing tactics???}

4. i am named after anthony bourdain. well, my middle name is, and that's pretty bad ass.

5. i am one heck of a good brother. i let my baby sister pull my ears and fur without complaint. i'll even lick her with gratitude for it. not gonna lie, at first i was weary of her, but now i gotta say....she's a keeper, that one.

check out my favorite video of the day:



love, leon

1.19.2012

dear stella // never be afraid




dear stella,

as you saw last week, i did a much needed closet cleanse and donated a bucket load of clothes i haven't worn in forever. while going through my various piles, i came across some items that i forgot i had {love that!}, and excitedly decided to add them back into my everyday wardrobe. i love how cheap it is to go shopping in my closet! someday, i will teach you how to do this. anyway, i noticed two trends among the items i was pulling: color & pattern. i asked myself, why, when i have a closet chock-full of hot pink cardigans, colorful scarfs, chevron shoes, bold belts, and polka dots, do i continue to wear plain-jane black, navy, and cream. how insanely boring is that?


if all it takes to brighten my morning {besides making a baby sandwich with you and your daddy in bed at 5 am} is an unexpected pop of color and playful mix of pattern...i say i'm going for it, and baby girl, so should you! so what if it breaks a "fashiony rule". who made the rules anyway? and who says you can't mix patterns, or wear pink and red in the same outfit? the biggest mistake you could ever make is being afraid to make one. if i like it, it works for me. that's my rule and advice to you.

i love this quote:



as your mommy i will do my best to guide you in a direction that helps you embrace your uniqueness and soar in confidence. everyday should be a positive expression of your beautiful self. clothing is definitely not everything, but know that it can be fun, refreshing, break rules, help unleash creativity, and turn a blah day into a colorful one. stella, my baby girl, may you always be true to who you are by never being afraid to be you {everyone else is taken}.


love, your mama
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